Hey Surp,
I feel your pain!
Awhile back, I was in danger of losing my pilot's licence - got really overweight when I had a job that entailed extensive travel, endless dinners with clients, chronic time zone changes, exotic cuisines to try all the time - every bad thing that leads to weight increase. The fact that I'm a decent cook didn't help either LOL.
This was before the internet was widely available, so I went to the local library, did some fairly extensive research and decided to go on the Canadian Heart and Stroke Foundation diet.
I was able to lose 22 kilograms in about 8 months.
It was a very sensible diet, a very balanced diet, didn't really cut anything out but made you decide whether the teensy little bit of one thing is worth the huge number of calories, even allowed one beer or one glass of wine or 3 oz liquor per day.
I recommend you stay away from fad diets and quick weight loss gimmicks.
The other thing you should mix in with the dietary change is some low stress exercise - walking is a great start, just pace yourself at first, get good walking shoes and work up to something a bit more strenuous as your weight comes down.
Over the years I've gained about half the weight back and should go on the diet again (if I can find it), but not an active pilot anymore, so the push isn't there so much.
The British Heart and Stroke Foundation must have a similar diet - check their website.
Good luck and I'm pulling for you - might even have another lash at losing weight myself as my leathers are a tough squeeze these days and won't fit at all when I have my back protector on.
Pat Cowan,
Vintage Motorcycle Fiberglass