Everything checks out, I'm offshore so I can't send any pictures at the moment. I soda blasted it already cause at that point I was going to use it. So the combustion chambers are clean and look good. I didn't run a plug through, but they all appeared fine. I'm sure running a tap through them to clean them up would be fine. Cam surfaces look good, nothing other than normal wear. Definitely nothing like yours haha! Not sure about the flatness of the head, never put it on a piece of glass. I got my head surfaced anyways, so I would do it to any head before I installed it on my bike. That was always the weak link on these bikes to make them leak. The top of the guides look fine, the head is complete so I haven't taken it apart to see about clearance. But the head came off a running bike, or that's what the listing said and the video had it running..... No damaged fins that I remember. And all exhaust studs are in good order and not damaged.
I'm not sure about mix matched parts you are talking about, but I tried to use my 350f head before I bought the 2nd head, it fit fine, but the comb. chambers were a few millis off. As far as valves, I haven't found anything that swaps with it. You pretty much have to get them from TT400r (about 550 bucks and they are titanium) or special order from Kibblewhite, which I'm sure isn't cheap. But unless you are looking to sink a crap load of money in the engine, I would keep them together. Maybe your cheapest bet is sending your cam off to get rephased. I got mine rephased to a mild street cam(350 for that)..