I was witness to see a family lose almost everything today (Photos)

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I was witness to see a family lose almost everything today.

My father and I have been helping my nephew and his new bride renovate their new home. Today around four pm Sean’s wife Logan yelled from one of the bedrooms that the neighbor’s house was on fire. I headed as fast as I could to the door. As I opened the door I could see flames coming from the back of the house. I ran across the back of Sean’s house toward the fire. I could see flames inside the house through almost every upstairs window. My heart raced. As I rounded the corner I could see a lady and a young boy standing in the middle of the road. Their body expressions and mannerisms told me that someone might be in the house. Their pace was heart wrenching to witness. I could see they were devastated and helpless. My heart raced like it was going to blow up in my chest. But this fueled my desire to help these people. I immediately started looking for a way to possibly enter the house as I ran towards them. I no longer noticed them but instead my focus was on the house. I ran in their direction but all the while looking for possible movement in the house. As I ran all I could think about was a small child or an elderly parent trapped. I glanced towards them as I drew close. Both were crying hysterically. Their arms and legs moved in a way almost out of control. But it was their eyes. I’ll never forget the look they had. Although she glanced at me I’m not sure she saw me. It was though she looked through me. I ask her if anyone was in the house. She didn’t answer. She opened her mouth but no words came out and her eyes just grew. My heart sank. I took a step back toward the house and asked again only much louder this time. Again no answer. I turned part way toward the house and took another step in that direction. I glanced back to look in her face one last time to confirm my fear. It was then that her son gave me the words I was looking for. He walked toward me shaking his head , “no…, no sir, everyone is safe.” Are you sure, I asked. Same answer, “everyone is safe,” he said. Thank God I thought.
I then asked if the pets got out. He again responded only quickly this time. “ we have no pets sir.“ I think it was then that I took my first breath after walking out the door. I could feel something leave my body as I exhaled.
I looked at his mother crying and I stepped toward her. I first put my hand on her shoulder, but she was unfazed. I gave her a quick reassuring hug, but I‘m not sure she even knew someone was hugging her. I pulled back and told her everyone is safe and that’s what counts. She then turned toward me this time looking straight into my eyes. Her eyes were swollen red and looked empty. They pierced me like an arrow landing on the other side. It was the first moment that I allowed myself to feel any emotion. I could feel a lump form in my throat. But I fought to stay strong. I looked behind her and noticed a pickup truck half in the road and half in the snow bank. It was left running and her younger two children were warm and safe inside. She drove it there just minutes before when she arrived home from picking up her children from school and found their home ablaze.
It was then I remembered a propane tank on the side of the house. I looked back and fire had reached the wall the tank sat next to. Flames were now shooting out of every window, through the roof and into the air a few hundred feet. Thick black smoke filled the air and my face burned from the heat. I looked back and told her we needed to move her truck to a safe distance because the tank was going to blow very soon. It was like a light bulb went off. She looked at me with a changed face and turned towards the truck.
She hurriedly walked back and got in. After a couple tries it was apparent the truck was stuck. I walked behind the truck and told her if it starts to move not to let off the accelerator. I pushed with everything in me and the truck began to move. I shouted to keep on it and she did. The truck continued to inch forward and I continued to push. A young gentleman appeared to my side and joined in the effort. Once on the road she drove quickly down the street. As I watched her drive away I noticed all the neighbors watching. Spectators filled the street. It wasn’t until later that it dawned on me that out of all those people not one offered to help. Not one person stepped forward to ask this lady if her family was safe. Thankfully the young gentleman helped push her truck to safety but for the others I’m deeply disappointed. However, its not something that I want to dwell on because its something that can really bring me down.

Shortly after the fire companies arrival that tank did go. It shot flames several feet in the air as it released its pressure. It didn’t give the bang I expected but you could see its intense force as the ball of flames pushed to the sky. The line connecting the house to the electric pole snapped and crackled. Balls of fire chased across the line making a path towards the transformer. As the line burned and became disconnected it fell from the house. As the line hit the ground, at that very moment, I noticed her husband had finally arrived, walking from behind one of the fire engines. I knew it was him by the look on her face. He made his way toward her and reached out his arms. As they moved I stood and watched this husband and wife for that moment. I can’t begin to tell you how helpless I felt. I can’t fathom to know or understand what that family is going through. I do know they lost most of what they own but their embrace was raw and strong and real. It confirmed to me they still have each other.
 
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I have been to a couple of house fires in the line of work I'm in, and the feeling sucks. And whats worse, cops cars are faster than firetrucks, so I ussually get there before the fire guys do. All I can do is keep the people away from their house.
 
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Whoa Troy...

Intense.
My hat goes off to you for your efforts.

Don't forget to take a moment for yourself. Crazy situation like that can linger in your mind for a while. At least no one was hurt.
 
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Amazine story.
Glad you had the courage to do what you could to help this traumatized family.
It’s what heroes are made of.

Cheers
Jimmy
 
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like you videos you written voice has the ability to capture the essence of specific time. I'm sorry for this family, and I'm really glad to see that you are human enough to care about these people when others are too busy.

I hope that everything will work out for these people.

Jay
 
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Man... Kudos to you Troy for helping them out. Glad to hear it was "only" property damage and everybody is safe.


As always, if anything is needed we are practically right up the road. Extra food, clothes, anything we have can be down your way within a couple hours.
 
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Ive faced that reality countless times. There is nothing comparable to the actions and the persona of a human being in their darkest moments. It really hardens you to the way that the world operates under the umbrella of the typified plastic "pop culture" emotion that we all like to think exists more often than not. The fact is, every second of every day brings a moment of frozen solace to the soul when witnessed because of that particular moment's ability to burst the reality bubble that we all like to perceive ourselves as being protected by. It took me a long time to "get used to" for lack of better terminology, the feeling of helplessness that you can get when the darkest hour is upon you. It's kind of funny, it really teaches you to see the glimpse of light above the shadow that is allowing the shadow to be cast underneath the particular moment that is shielding the sun. It is also a great reminder to be thankful for the moments that you DON'T have to bear witness to the horrors of the day to day that lurk inside of hidden corners. I would be a liar if I told you that it didn't get to me sometimes. I would also be a liar to tell you that it hadn't changed me from the man that I once was, sometimes perceptibly for the better, but oftentimes seemingly for the worse. I have noticed that life leaves scars, and the more you have, the more colorful and contrasting the story that is contained in each one. Life is made up of moments of definition, and no doubt what you went through will be burned permanently as one onto your psyche. You write your own story, and I am thankful for men that write it with their heart AND mind rather than blind circumstance. Thank you for that brother.
 
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Wow Troy, that is a crazy story, really sad that there was only you who seemed to care enough to try and help. I hoep everyone invoved is ok and they can find a place to stay. Loosing stuff hurts a bit but you can replace most anything. Loosing a family member would have been far worse and unreplacable.

Thanks for being you.

Mike
 
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Troy, you are one of the few "good men" left in this world. I have said it before, that I had almost lost faith that there were so few of us left until I became part of the DTT family and met so many of you out there. This still leaves very few, but more than I had originally believed. It takes a real man to step up and be a man in a situation like that, and too many "so called" men have lost what being a real man means. This great country was built on the back of real men, and the reason we seem to be falling apart now, is that society has forgotten that!

I know that family is grateful for what you did, and hopefully some of those spectators went back home and thought of what you did, and make a conscious decision to be a man next time a situation arises. One random act of kindness can spread like a virus. All we can do is do our part to better others lives and hope that it does spread to those who don't. I for one am very thankful to know you, and more so call you my friend!
 
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Man, that is awful. As Rich said, we are right up the road. If that family needs anything please let us know. Ill help anyway I can.
Thats really solid of you to have helped. The neighborhoods I work in are pretty bad, the kind of places where we see awful things happen on an almost daily basis, and I know how few people there are out there who would have done anything positive in this situation.
And as far as those who chose to watch instead of act, I strongly believe that what goes around, will certainly come around. I wish nothing bad on anyone, but in the end, who you are is what you get.
 
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I appreciate the opportunity to tell this story. I really felt a need to put some words down to help get things settled in my head. Watching that family go through what they did was a pretty powerful thing. Though probably a little therapy for me its their saga I wanted to tell when I sat down to write. I’m grateful for all the kind words but honestly, I really didn’t do much.

Kiley, 03rangerxlt, Cresent and others,
I can’t grasp how you deal with this sort of stuff everyday. I salute you.
I’m almost non functioning today. I feel exhausted even though I slept in and haven’t done a damn thing. I really need to get my ass moving. I have animals locked in the barn who depend on me and my drive has been blown shut since last night.
Anyhow, This event just renews and strengthens my feelings toward the folk out there serving.
 
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Before I left last night I walked up to the husband and wife while they held each other. I put my hand on his shoulder and told them to be strong for each other and for their children. I told them if they needed a place to stay we had room. They both thanked me. He told me that his mother in law lived about five miles away and they could stay there.

Help offered from a motorcycle form really says a lot about this place and the family that lives here. I know you guys will always have my back. Thank you.
I know the children have nothing. My guess is a small child about 3 or 4, another about 10-12 and the son looked to be about 15. I don’t know much about them other than she is a beautician and he is some sort of laborer. I’ll try to get more info and maybe we can get something started for them. Thanks for the support guys.
 
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Say the word man. I have plenty of friends with kids around that age that Im sure have extra clothes and whatnot.
 
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wow man... got goose bumps reading that! you did a great thing man... it blows my mind sometimes what people do and do not do... i stop all the time to help people on the side of the road and it pains me to hear that they have been there for hours without help in most cases... whatever happened to helping out your fellow man. Speaks allot of your character and your upbringing Troy. i am glad you have kids man, i know that they will pass that same spark on to their kids as well. World needs more people like you, more people willing to offer a helping hand, or even at times take control of the situation and be the brains of the operation.
you did a good thing man, i will have a drink to you tonight and remember the family in my prayers
 
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"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."

As stated, Troy... you're one of the good guys ;)
 
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thanks for the kind words fellas I really appreciate it. Honestly though I did nothing more than many of you would have if faced with the same thing. I know that for a fact. Its all in the spirit we share here on DTT. I think most of us live by the motto give a hand up when someone is in need. Joe I'm so proud of both my sons. They are above and beyond the man I'll ever be. But thank you and everyone else for thinking so highly of me. I'm really undeserving


Photos taken by my Nephew's wife Logan



At this point I had just reached the lady and her children. We are just out of site. You can see my tracks I left in the snow as I went down the drive
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Propane tank is in front of the shed right next to the house. After looking at these pictures I can hardly believe I was going to try to go in there. however, In my defense the left of the house (out of the picture) is still flame free. We are still directly below the tank just out of site.
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Tank is still intact
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Taken after most of the roof had collapsed and the tank had been burning for awhile. Firefighters were already spraying the front of the house. The were also spraying the tank to try to keep it cool. This must have been taken at a point when they were changing men on the nozzles
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Firefighters continue to try to keep the tank cool until it burned itself out. The firetruck is parked where her truck had been parked earlier. The house is pretty much gone
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wow man that sucker went up! that was burning HOT! you can see that in the flames over smoke... wow... glad that no one was hurt
 
yeah man I'm so happy that I didn't have to go in there. Its really sad though that they lost everything. I was thinking today of stuff my grandmother or grandfather gave me. All the pictures and that sort of stuff. To lose that would be really hard. Those little kids lives were turned upside down. Although I'm glad they're safe.

Was really hot. My face looks like it is windburned today and we were in the road about 15-20 yds away


Once I get more info on the family and what they need I'll let you all know. Thanks again guys for thinking of them
 
Wow, I had chills reading that Troy. Good on you for helping out like that, although I'm not surprised you did. You've always come across in your posts as a class act and someone that's always there to lend a hand. You're a great example.


Thank you for posting that.
 
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