Most of the guys in the Triangle are from the Raleigh Durham Area.
We rode there once to the Port City Rumble in November 2011 ( man time flies by)
Hope you find someone to kick it with. I know exactly how you feel!
I used to live out there in NC and it took a while to even get the DTT Triangle group going.
Stick around, post your own meets, show up at the place you pick every time and people will start showing up. Once I realized that I did not have to wait for people to vouch their attendance and that all I had to do was set something up and show up it took about 3 months and we had a good solid bunch showing up consistently.
Before that I waited about 3 to 6 months for people to even chime in.
Get out there and set something up.