We all get a little jaded at times but I think that the OP was suggesting that maybe what we want as a BBOTM is a bike that stands out in terms of being more creative, or different in some way. What I think he was getting at is that it's nice to see people building Cafe Racer inspired bikes, but for BOTM it might be nice to see bikes that are pushing the envelope or are truer to the roots of the design ethos.
It's your bike and you can do what you want with it, but it's a shame to see newcomers start off with a strip and grind session when they haven't got the bike running. It's nice to have a sweet looking bike in the garage or your sitting room that you made your own, but it's more fun to have a bike - even a stock POS - that you can ride.
The way the Cafe bikes evolved was rarely a "build". We typically had a bike that we rode all the time and as the cash came in we bought a tank or seat or pipes etc and slowly transformed it. Engines came out only when there was something that needs fixing.
Too many bikes are stripped down and bits cut off and then the bike isn't ridden because it doesn't actually work well as a motorcycle. No fenders is a guarantee of dirt and rocks in the carbs or on top of the engine. No front fender or no fork brace means the front end wonders on the road. Low bars are hard to learn to ride with and are painful with stock pegs, but newcomers don't know any of that.
You learn as you go in this game, and from my perspective, I'd rather see guys learn to ride and have fun and maybe do some upgrades over the winter.
You can't let one or two comments from others turn you off. Read what they say and if they make a comment that doesn't agree with your own world view, try to work out where they are coming from and then you can shape your view - whether you agree with the comments or not.
Have fun with your bike, and welcome