dcmspikes said:geez, i didnt think this group was capable of this. i think the problem today is a general lack of responsibility.
at the end of the day you have to live with the knowledge of what realy happened and the consequences of your actions.
if there is one thing ive learned about relationships it is communication. if you arent happy with something, let it be known. but what do i know?
my point is that in todays society people are not expected to be responsible for themselves. to the point that when they are responsible they are untrustworthy. its great to be alive. so dont be too accountable for yourself, you just might find yourself on some sort of blacklist.
It is somewhat surprising the thoughfullness that has gone into the responses in this thread, but having been around here for some time now, I really shouldn't be surprised.
Agreed. Not taking personal responsibility for one's actions IS a major problem within society today. "It's never my fault. Someone else is to blame."
Communication is a key for sure.
As far as doing what's "right". IMO, there's never a good reason not to do what's right. Even if it's only so you can sleep peacefully at night.
Man up. Take the heat. You're better off in the end.